Funny little thing called Love.

I retired early today. To bed i mean. After i was done drafting the post on the kids birthday (will upload it as soon as i get the pictures from my sis) i decided to have an early night as i will be having classes the next day. Just as i was getting ready for bed my brother's fiance text me. I've known from my brother earlier this week that they were having some problems and he just told me briefly what the problem was. When i offered to help he said "No. I got myself into this i'll figure it out on my own." that's my brother. He'll always think that he can solve things on his own. Well little brother do i always have to remind you that two heads are better than one??

I was waiting for his fiance to text me. No not that i want to attack and scold her or anything. I wanna know her side of the story too. There's no different between him or her. To me i see both as my siblings. I wanna help if i can. So from her i get to know that there was a communication break down between them. Just like any other couples on earth, jealousy and trust seems to be their issue. I'm not a love guru and neither have i had any experience in relationships. Therefore there's just so much i could understand and advice. For sometimes it's hard to see things from someones point of view.

I've always believed that in a relationship the important thing is trust. Jealousy is needed but too much of it might just kill the relationship. It kills the trust that the other party has in you and without it there's no sparks in the relationship.Complicated huh? Sounds chimp isn't it? Well that's from my point of view. Sometimes i just fail to understand why we demand so much attention from the other party and why we always want them to make us feel appreciated. I mean to me it just shows that you are being insecure and being insecure means you don't trust the other party and if you don't trust the other party than why be with that person in the first place. Well that's just me and my opinion. I don't know...maybe someday i'll understand these complications.

Why can't it be simple. This relationship stuff. Some are willing to try over and over again. Heartbreaks after heartbreaks. I've seen the tears. I've felt their pains. But it really amaze me how they could get back up and fall in love (they say) again. Sometimes i wonder what is love really?? Never found the answer. Or maybe not yet. ;)

Lots of Love
   ella <3